Anonymous said: Heya I'm in a bit of an odd situation. I'm 17 and a virgin, I am currently friends with benefits with a good friend of mine. We haven't done anything yet as we are taking things slow but I don't know if I want to lose my virginity to him or not, I want to but I keep thinking of pros and cons that come with it. Any tips or suggestions? :/
My number one tip is wait until you’re ready, and wait until you no longer are weighing the pros and cons of the situation whether it is with him or with someone else. When you know you are ready for sex, there will be no shadow of doubt in your mind. If you have it before you are ready, you may sadly have lots of regret and it can damper your future sexual experiences as well.
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It’s absurd how you refuse to come see me after a workout because you think I might find you unattractive. You need to understand that I love you most when you’re in an old sweatshirt, humming to yourself and pouring vanilla milk for me, because that’s how I want you. I want you exactly as you are. I want you for your stubbornness and for your unsatisfiable desire to learn things. I want you for all the hours you spend your nose buried in DC comics. For all the places you’ve been and all the mouths you’ve kissed. I want you exactly as you are. Nothing you do could make me love you any less.
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